Saturday, March 28, 2009

You know you're from Utah when....

.....the after-the-funeral-luncheon doesn't have funeral potatoes on the menu, and you question whether or not you've followed Church policy. As a newly formed Relief Society Presidency, we were in charge of our first after-the-funeral-luncheon . I am embarrassed to admit that I actually called Mom to ask if we had to have funeral potatoes as part of the meal. Our Relief Society President decided to do soup and salad. My first thought was, what about the ham and funeral potatoes? Thankfully I didn't say anything, but to think that I even thought twice about it, made me laugh about what a funny sub-culture we have as Mormons (members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints). "Funeral potatoes" as they've been aptly named, are not my favorite dish. Brynn says, "They're too cheesey." If you make them, I won't mind, and I'll probably have a serving, but I don't usually make them for my family. I did make them for Abby's preschool picnic when I was asked to bring a casserole. People wondered what they were. It was another realization of what a peculiar people we are. With all that being said, why was I so worried about making sure they were part of the meal? It didn't help that http://www.mormonshare.com/ had the following posted:

Funeral Potatoes: A Mormon Tradition
If the family or the deceased are from Utah, they are probably expecting funeral potatoes to be served during the family meal. This comfort food has many variations, and here are some links to a few recipes:
Meridian Magazine's Funeral Potatoes recipe and homage article
FMH Funeral Potatoes
KSL.com Funeral Potatoes
Recipezaar Funeral Potatoes

The soup and salad idea worked out really well, and provided great comfort to the family. It was a great idea, and really, it was refreshing to break away from the norm. When you stop and think about it, we Mormons have a funny culture all our own, don't we? What other funny things have you noticed that are part of our culture?

4 comments:

Valynn said...

That is a crack-up. You gave me a good laugh. Isn't it funny how we get stuck into such ruts? Maybe you didn't have ham and funeral potatoes, but you did at least serve green jell-o with shredded carrots, right? Just kiddin.

Alyson said...

I was so glad they gave us baked potatoes at BNL's funeral, and not funeral potatoes. Yay, we could eat!

Our RS is definitely stuck in the holding pattern. Every funeral gets funeral potatoes, jello-salads (hello, vegetables?), and cakes brought in by the sisters. The family provides the meat, usually ham. I feel guilty about it, but it isn't my area. If it were, we'd change things up. A lot.

Melinda McBride said...

Funny you mention it, because Saturday for a funeral in our ward, we were assigned to prepare a pan of funeral potatoes. Seriously, there are a million other food options.... why that?

tatum said...

i'm sorry but i LOVE those potatoes, how could you not.